Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. However, that may not be practical for all women. The love of your life just might be a married man. Being part of any couple can be challenging and umulticoingames.comedictable, as we all know. But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and umulticoingames.comedictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win. The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.